Gay Buffet

Gay Buffet helps you make sense of the modern world through a lens that is thoughtful, Queer, kind, and hopeful. Plus, a Friday sex column full of horny, but helpful tips to get you more in touch with your lovers or yourself!

By Aidan Wharton
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“Well written LGBTQ+ news with a bit of advice”
Tom Bilcze, Rainbow Threads
“Gay Buffet feels like home, not the home you left, but the one you’re building with the people who see you, even when it can be challenging to see yourself. Aidan writes with humor, vulnerability, and a relentless belief that we’re all capable of showing up for each other. In a world constantly trying to make us forget our power, Gay Buffet is a reminder that community and hope aren’t luxuries, they’re necessities. So, treat yourself…”
Matt Fitzpatrick, what are we doing here
“Reading Gay Buffet feels like a mobile Pride Parade. It's a lovely balance of warmth, honesty, and intellectual stimulation. A must-subscribe for queer and ally readers!”
Brenden O'Donnell, Geek Out